Loneliness ain't so bad.....

Was talking to a very good friend of mine a few minutes back and she wasn't feeling perky, to be exact she got hit with the feeling of being lonely and being homesick so this post is meant for her because honestly I want her to smile and also I got a new idea to write about so *tah-Dah* a new post :D [Btw, do thank her because she gave me the idea lol :D]

So yeah, I guess most people have gone through such feelings when one is far from home and from family and trust me it kind off sucks big time especially when you need motivation and a little bit of loving from your mom or dad. I have been the only child in the family for 17 years and trust me I'm so used to being alone most of the time but being lonely is totally different mind you people. I do get times when I feel being lonely was good but most times it scares me, and I know I'm not the only one when I say this. 

I want to let people on a little secret, I was never with my parents most of the time, my childhood was mostly spent with my grand father and my aunty [my mom's younger sister] and my dad since my mom went off to study in Delhi for three years so because of that I was mostly stuck at home the entire day alone and with my nanny but then again even though my nanny was there, I was lonely [yeah people, I was a lonely child so give me props to being emo :P].

So yeah, after that I had to leave home for my high school for two years but it wasn't so bad though because I had awesome kick ass friends who were there to suffer the same fate as me [but I think it might be my emo side kicked in that period though :P], anyway there were moments I was homesick and I felt like kicking Rita Paul's asre [she's the Head Warden in the Girl's dormitory when we were in school] because of her constant nagging and her way of talking that made me and every else if I might add to puke and die at that very moment [yes she's that old nutty wringly green hair monster that our parents told us about when we were kids :P]. 

Anyway, I realized many things though through the years [and don't think I'm emo even if I was before :P] and one thing that stuck out was the fact that even if we are lonely and feel that we are alone in this world, there will always be someone who will be by your side through and through it just that we need to look better. Sometimes, walking the so called lonely road is not all bad, you learn many things about yourself when your alone as long as you embrace loneliness as a companion trust me you will understand that most times in life you have to walk this road many times, each time you tread on this path you learn many new things you never have expected it so instead of being all down because of it why don't you learn to take it as something new to experience since everything in life be it good or bad all depends on how we look at it. So don't worry I know loneliness is a scary thing but if you look nicely you'll see that your not the only one who is feeling this, and even if your family and friends are a million miles away they would always by your side be it physically or spiritually. It just all depends on our mindset and if you still feel your alone message me or call me I'll definitely be there for you :)


-Xoxo